3 things we all want in our lives

Irrespective of social or financial status, all people want three things in life, say the researchers. Here's what they are. 1. Being seen as we are Seeing as we are, beyond labels or attachments, cultural, family inheritance, is one of the hardest things to get from others. Let's see others as we suppose to be genuine and honest with ourselves. Let us renounce all the claims and walls we have built around us.

To our romantic ideas and inclinations, to stereotypes, weaknesses, expectations. Unfolding your soul in front of the world is one of the most frightening things for anyone. The moment we manage to give up our perceptions of others is a moment of release. We begin to feel connected and we will never be alone. 2.

Let's be embraced A loving hug gives you a safe space in which we express our pains, joys, desires without being judged. It means accepting what we really are with all our human weaknesses and defects. Embracing is a gift we can offer to others while we get it back in its most authentic form. Holding someone in your arms or being in your arms gives more meaning to your life. That does not mean that you have to literally hug people every day.

Embracing means unconditional emotional support from someone. It means that you can express your emotions whenever you need and that you will be there for that person. Regardless of the financial or social status, we all need to feel someone unconditionally. photo by Nadya Korobkova, Shutterstock3. Being known as we really are Many people can make a point about us on the basis of the pieces of information they get from various sources.

But what we want is to be known for who we really are, how we live our lives, with emotions with everything. We want those closest to know the depth of sadness, fear, anxiety, our worries. But the most common mistake, on the other hand, is to keep people away because of our preconceived notions about them. It is difficult for us to make deep connections with people because we fear that they will see our wounds and imperfections. We think this will make us vulnerable.

We choose to build walls instead of bridges for fear that they will judge us as we judge ourselves. To be known as we are, we need to overcome our fears. .