4 obstacles that stay in the way of your success

Photo: Creativa Images, ShutterstockSa you want to be successful, to know what success means to you and to set goals is the first steps on your way to success. Your actions, attitude and thoughts do the rest. Here are the four most common obstacles that prevent people from succeeding. Listen to your fearsSemarks are unreal thoughts that seem real. The more you listen to them, the more they flood you with false proofs that are quite convincing. There is no successful person in this world who did not feel afraid when it started.

Remedy: Accept that you have these fears. Use them in a positive way to set realistic and achievable goals. Source: Giphy2. Let the obstacles stop you The external stones are out of your control. They may be things or circumstances that actually prevent you from progressing.

For example, your business partner is withdrawing or you do not have enough resources to start the business you dream of. Remedy: Look at the obstacles as a test given by the universe to see how strong your desire is. Adopt the will and creativity of a child. You have too little timeTime is one of the resources that can be limited when setting a date for the project. Although you started at the date you proposed, the inevitable distractions can prevent you from completing it at the proposed date.

Remedy: adjust on the go and inform your team about changes to your plans. You set too high goals in a new research in 2017 E. Aa Arens and his colleagues at the University of Heidelberg show that the danger is not the risk of not reaching your goals but of setting them too high as well as of lacking adjustment and adaptation when circumstances are in the way of meeting the most . Remedy: adapt to change. In the aforementioned survey, the German researchers are trying to examine the role of depressive beliefs in setting goals.

The authors concluded that if you are good at adjusting goals on self-assessment, it means that you have the ability to adapt to change, which implicitly could protect you against depression. .