Do not confuse love with a list on the wall

You have made a list of all the attributes that your partner has to have, and every time you meet a man for the first time, you quickly get them in the magazine. Your mind evaluates the person's potential and tells you if it's time to go to a second meeting or not. But wait for your heart to speak. Because when the mind speaks too loud, the heart is silent. When you meet a man and the voice of the heart - attention, not loneliness, lack of self-confidence or other negative emotions, is heard louder than the mind's objections, you may have met your half. At that point, some of the aspects that you considered essential and not related to the soul and character of that person lose their importance.

That's what happened to my girlfriend, Maria. Mary's father is twenty years older than her mother. As a child, she noticed that she was little involved in household matters, pretending to be older and lacking physical intimacy among her parents. She said she would never fall into the trap where her mother was caught. On the list of the qualities of the ideal man Maria wrote, among other things, an age close to mine (maximum five years difference) and high.

But guess what happened? . But guess what happened? At one point, Mary met him. He first saw his photo on a presentation site and felt he needed to know him. Maybe it was the gentleness of his smile and gaze, maybe the feeling of knowing many lives. Then he changed his mind.

And he changed his mind again. Eventually, the next day he went to the event. Their eyes met, and she knew that although he addressed everyone present, she was addressing her. At the end of the conference, they talked. Mary wanted her evening not to end.

After all the participants left, they walked by the hand, talked and kissed under the stars. One thing that Mary has never done with an unknown. .