Do you want to cure yourself?

If you have gone through a difficult separation and a relationship that has hurt you - in which you have been cheated, emotionally or physically abused by a narcissist, psychopath or sociopath - you probably need to exorcise these demons by repeatedly discussing what has not . But discussions with friends help to a certain extent. Here are some things to consider: 1. Many people prefer not to choose one or the otherI'm sure you have heard some people say, \. This is a sign that they do not want to be on either side or engage in conflict. Even your best friends could tell you this, especially if they heard the same story too often.

Maybe you do not feel good, but do not bother with the fact that they will be good and hope that giving up a relationship that has not worked will give you the space needed to find your happiness. 2. Some people may have to keep in touch with your ex Maybe they socialize in the places your ex are attending, maybe they meet him at work or just want to keep him as a friend on Facebook. You do not have to make a drama of it or break relationships with your friends, unless your ex. It was abusive and the only way to keep you safe is to cut all the links.

In these cases, it is normal to expect your close friends to break the connection with the former. 3. You can not save the next victim. This is often one of our most powerful reasons to spread the truth about a former who has turned out to be a wolf in sheep's clothing: to warn the next victim and save her from misfortune. The only problem is that the new conquest will not believe you.

They will think that you are talking in envy and will be blinded by love. You must allow him to teach his own lesson, even in a tougher way. 4. Concern is fueling the attachment. Whether you decide to talk or not about the former relationship, limit the time spent thinking about ex.

And the longer you have left the past, the more you limit your power to go forward. Anchoring into something that is no longer is an unhealthy, unattractive, and ultimately boring attitude. .