To cure the past is to accept it

Maturity has nothing to do with age. Many adults are not mature, but just pretend to be, behave like adults. Deep inside they are stuck at the age they have received the slightest amount of love We are born whole without emotional wounds and parts of us that we try to suppress. We offer and receive love without fear. However, there is a moment in which we feel or are emotionally neglected. It is possible to love and not to receive love or what we want.

These moments create a schism inside us. Part of us is emotionally injured, and the other party is trying to protect the injured party. By accepting the past you are emotionally healing That's why successful people who have a beautiful family and a good job thirst in their heart after the love they did not receive. Success can be just a product of their intention to prove themselves worthy of love, so that they can finally get it. They live in the same loop, in the same reality, only the details are slightly different.

I feel like the same thing happens always, only the place and time is different. People who are emotionally blocked display some common features in adult life. I fail to develop the skills necessary to form healthy relationships with others and do not trust people. They are not aware of their own worth and they always want to be in control. They feel insecure.

photo: Andrey_I, ShutterstockIn general, we create scenarios and put ourselves in situations similar to those we have not yet cured. We look for people like those who have not given us the desired love with the intention of making them give us the love we have not received and repair the past. If, for example, you were hurt by your father, you will look for men with similar behavior. At the subconscious level you plan to recreate the same situation and get a new chance. What to do when you decide to mature emotionally? .

And for that, there is no need to fix the past, but to accept it. By accepting the past, you can heal the wounded part of you. Offer the love you seek from others. Realize that you are the source of your love. That you are love.